Ruminations and Cogitations

wandering and wondering….

Serenity and Being Undisturbed February 29, 2012

Filed under: Emotional Sobriety — Tamera Martens @ 9:53 pm
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Today I was reading an article from the “Grapevine” that talked about emotional sobriety.  One of the greatest gifts that I have received is the gift of emotional balance.  The majority of the time I am “undisturbed” by what’s going on around me and by my inner dialogue.  I have let go of many attachments to how things “should” be, or how I “want” them to be.  I try to foster an awareness of what is happening, not what I think should be happening.  This type of thinking and awareness creates equanimity and balance with my spirit.  When I am challenged by my internal dialogue, which usually manifests in feelings of fear; I ask myself – is what I’m thinking, feeling, afraid of, true, based on my own experience?   If I don’t know the answer, then I investigate further.  I also choose where I want to put my emotional energy each day.  Do I want to entertain negative self-talk and get wrapped up in stories, or do I want to put my energy into what is happening right now, without commentary.  Awareness and mindfulness of what is going on internally doesn’t mean that I ignore unpleasant thoughts or feelings…it means that I notice them and am aware of them…but I don’t give them the energy to blow up.  Life is too short to spend time wrapped up in negativity.  I want to live in the solution.  That is the gift of emotional sobriety.


Ruminations and Cogitations February 28, 2012

Filed under: Emotional Sobriety — Tamera Martens @ 5:52 pm


1  : to go over in the mind; repeatedly and often casually or slowly
2  : to chew repeatedly for an extended period
1  : to ponder or meditate on; usually intently
2  : to meditate deeply or intently
This blog is an expression of what’s on my mind and what is catching my attention.  Hope you enjoy reading it as much as I’ll enjoy creating it.