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Serenity and Being Undisturbed February 29, 2012

Filed under: Emotional Sobriety — Tamera Martens @ 9:53 pm
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Today I was reading an article from the “Grapevine” that talked about emotional sobriety.  One of the greatest gifts that I have received is the gift of emotional balance.  The majority of the time I am “undisturbed” by what’s going on around me and by my inner dialogue.  I have let go of many attachments to how things “should” be, or how I “want” them to be.  I try to foster an awareness of what is happening, not what I think should be happening.  This type of thinking and awareness creates equanimity and balance with my spirit.  When I am challenged by my internal dialogue, which usually manifests in feelings of fear; I ask myself – is what I’m thinking, feeling, afraid of, true, based on my own experience?   If I don’t know the answer, then I investigate further.  I also choose where I want to put my emotional energy each day.  Do I want to entertain negative self-talk and get wrapped up in stories, or do I want to put my energy into what is happening right now, without commentary.  Awareness and mindfulness of what is going on internally doesn’t mean that I ignore unpleasant thoughts or feelings…it means that I notice them and am aware of them…but I don’t give them the energy to blow up.  Life is too short to spend time wrapped up in negativity.  I want to live in the solution.  That is the gift of emotional sobriety.


One Response to “Serenity and Being Undisturbed”


    Talented as always.Godi has my fears today.In my orchestra of emotions Godies love is the conductor and loving energy is the score. Emotion understands that strengh is a niece of hers.It slowly seaps into your soul when you are not wary of it like a unexpected brush of kindness from a stranger.Strengh is a wonderful midwife to a womyns soul and the greatest,kindest teacher that I know.Strengh stays in your soul when everyone choses to fly away . It’s roots dig deep into you and show you how to laugh.Yes strength is a wonderful,wise teacher,May I never grow tired of its wisdom. Loyalty and everything else me.

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